How to Keep Your Girlfriend
Unless she actually tells you that you don't have to return a phone call or text, you should always respond! In fact, try to be the one that calls and texts her first if you've had a habit of missing her calls in the past.
11. Don't neglect her feelings.
Every girl likes to know that her boyfriend has been thinking about her. Little things like flowers or a text that tells her she was on your mind.
10. Don't give her love base on situation.
Okay, so you dated all through high school but now you're headed to college in two different states. Long distance relationships are hard but not impossible. Don't make her feel like only cared about her because in was convenient.
9. Don't commit if you don't mean it.
Some guys have a habit of just telling a girl what she wants to hear. If she dreams of getting married someday, don't just agree with her and then never follow through. You'll just waste both of your time.
8. Don't act distant.
A lot of people have a fear of abandonment in relationships and she may be one of those. The last thing you want to do is act like you might be disappearing on her.
7. Don't just pretend to care.
Okay, so she watches one too many reality TV shows and she loves to visit museums and talk about her job. You don't actually have to like these things but it will mean a lot to her that you actually try to care instead of just pretending to.
6. Don't ever bully her.
Sometimes she isn't going to do what you wish she would. That is never an excuse to act like a bully or try to force her to do something.
5. Don't try to buy her off.
Flowers are nice but if you're constantly trying to buy her expensive gifts and spend money on her, she may start to feel a little uncomfortable. Occasional gifts are nice but no one likes to feel like their boyfriend thinks they're for sale.
4. Don't compare her to other girls.
This probably seems harmless enough but by comparing your girl to other girls even in a positive light, might give her the wrong impression. It could make her think that you're paying attention to other women or that you are just really critical of appearance so she will always have to be perfect.
3. Always tell her how you really feel.
If you realize that you love her more every day, don't keep feelings like that inside. Yes, to you they may sound sappy, but to her, it's probably just what she wants to hear.
2. Don't be a liar.
You don't have to make elaborate promises just to keep her interested. Only express to her what you actually feel for her, that way she'll always be able to trust you.
1. Don't beg.
Nothing reduces a man faster than groveling like a small child. Reasoning with her like adults shows that you not only have respect for yourself but you have respect for her.
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Whew! Nosebleed! :D
Kasi somehow nakakarelate ako. Sino ba naman ang girl na hindi gustong itreat siya as precious as diamond ng boyfriend niya diba? Lahat ata ng girlfriend kahit ano pang ugali meron siya, kahit ano pang personality ang taglay niya at kahit ano pang mundo ang kinalakhan niya, deep inside, gusto maitrato siya na parang prinsesa ng taong mahal niya.
Ang madalas kasi iniisip ng mga lalaki, bakit lagi nalang sila? Bakit palaging sila magbibigay, bakit palaging sila una, bakit sila lagi dapat gumawa ng move. Hello?? Una sa lahat sino ba nanligaw? Lalaki di ba? So anong nirereklamo niya? Isasagot naman nila, "eh nasa relationship na kami dalat hindi laging ako". Hindi rin. Hindi porke nasa relationship na kayo magbabago kana. Kung gaano ka kasweet, kung gaano ka kalambing, kung gaano ka matyaga, kung gaano ka maunawain nung nanliligaw ka palang, dapat mag next leve kapag naging kayo na hindi yung nababawasan or nawawala na lang bigla.
Hindi lang kasi alam ng maraming lalaki kung paano talaga magmahal ng TUNAY ay isang babae. Hindi nila alam, na kapag minahal na sila ng husto, lalong nahuhulog sila sa tao. Lalong minamahal nila ang mga lalaki. Subukan ninyong maging isang mabuting kasintahan. Hindi yung perpekto pero magpaparamdam sa babae ng tunay na pagmamahal. Sigurado ibabalik niya sayo yung pagmamahal na ibinibigay mo. Susubukan niya pang higitan. Lahat gagawin niya para sayo. Walang araw na hindi ka niya iisipin, walang araw na hindi niya susubukang iparamdam sayo na sobrang siya niya sa pagmamahal mo at handa siyang pagsilbihan ka buong katapatan sa buong buhay niya.
Ganun kami magmahal. Kapag naramdaman namin yung wagas na pagmamahal ng lalaki. Kapag pinapakita niya palagi kung gaano kami kahalaga sa kanya. Asahan niya na hindi siya magsisisi dahil naging mabuting kasintahan siya. :)
Ang sarap maging prinsesa ng lalaking pinangarap mong maging prinsipe. Pero mas masarap maging prinsesa ng taong totoo magmahal, hindi perpekto pero ipaparamdam sayo na "He's the BEST!". :)
